714. Are you a love failure?

Recently Madhavan uploaded the above picture on his Facebook page. 

It has been 14 years since Reena said Yes to Rajesh at the altar in a historic decision making instance in which she ended up ditching Rajeev Samuel. (You would understand this line only if you had seen the movie Minnaley)

Rajeev Samuel became so dejected and left the scene. He was last seen donning a blue cap and a white shirt and cleaning toilets in various houses. But the good thing was, he got his smile back.

If you had seen the movie Minnale, the real villain was Rajesh (Madhavan) and Rajeev Samuel (Abbas) was actually the good guy who was ditched in the end.

We come across many such stories where people get rejected for one reason or the other.

I know a guy who was rejected by the girl he was in love with because he was earning less compared to the guy she eventually married. The guy I know started hating the girl and when ever I talk to him he always says that he would earn more than the other guy and prove to the girl what she has lost. Many people have this mentality.

What are you gonna gain by proving to someone about yourself? If you have to prove to someone who you really are and what you are capable of, then that someone is YOU. 

Rather than trying to prove our mettle to someone, let us first live for ourselves. Once we start doing that we will have peace within us. That's what really matters. 

If we are still trying to prove someone wrong, then we are still controlled by that hurt that someone gave us some time back. It also means that person still controls your emotions. Get out of that hurt and start having a control of your emotions

Live for yourself. Stay Happy. Smile like Rajeev Samuel.

-Chronicwriter